feat: add support for using factory providers for QueryHandler and CommandHandler

[JoshVee]

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What kind of change does this PR introduce?

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What is the current behavior?

Currently, all @QueryHandler and @CommandHandler implementations need to be class providers.
If a factory provider is used, a TypeError is thrown when trying to reflect the command \ query metadata, eg:

TypeError
    at Reflect.getMetadata (/Users/work/code/apps/node_modules/reflect-metadata/Reflect.js:367:23)
    at QueryBus.reflectQueryId (/Users/work/code/apps/node_modules/@nestjs/cqrs/dist/query-bus.js:114:39)

What is the new behavior?

This PR modifies the InstanceWrapper reflection code within CommandBus and QueryBus to support factory providers.

The implementation reflects that used in EventBus.

Does this PR introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

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